Qualities of a True Gentleman
The definition of a gentleman varies from one lady to another. There are those who say a gentleman is he who is able to guarantee financial security to a lady or his family and there are those whose beliefs on whom a gentleman is are opined on being sexy. But with such terms as macho man coming to the fore, it is becoming more and more complicated to define who a gentleman really is. This is because macho men are known by way of dressing and perhaps their kind ways of conversing with a lady.
Coined from the word, man, a gentleman is arguably what any man living in this age aspires to be and this is more often than not attributed to the fact that ladies would prefer to associate with such a person other than someone they would be courageous enough to call a boy. Understandably, it is the gentle nature of a man that qualifies him for the league of gentleman, but again, you must set apart yourself from others by having something unique or rather be outstanding.
A good starting point for a better look at who a gentleman really is would therefore be speaking to those who ascribe to qualities that make one and most importantly, are endowed with such qualities. Well, do you consider yourself a gentleman? If so, what gives you the deep conviction that you are certainly one?
Is there a difference between a TRUE gentleman and just gentleman? Because there are those who claim to be gentleman when in real sense they are not because they do things contrary to what gentleman are known for, the need for demonstrating what being a true gentleman then comes to the fore. In this post, we walk you through some definitive features of true gentlemen and if you want to be one, acquisition of such qualities as discussed henceforth will help out.
A gentleman is always well groomed
Being the man every man would want to be like and someone whom every lady would want to associate with should see you take into account among other things good grooming. Well, grooming does not only mean you dress well but it should also be inclusive of how well you maintain your facial hair through shaving as well as what beauty care products you use. In fact, if you are well groomed, there is never a mistake in being referred to as a gentleman.
Gentle and caring in actions
Just like the name suggests, being a gentleman comes down to how you handle situations and others. You can’t be any closer to being one if you always do things in a hurry and worse still, talk harshly to not only ladies but also fellow men. A gentleman is in this regard patient, slow but sure and kind.
Good communication works
There is always a difference between speaking and talking. Gentlemen speak their minds, which means, they are very articulate with whatever words they utter and always aiming at striking a good relationship with others through effective communication.